The rest of the time, you need to set out a structure of slave training tasks to train your former lover's mind into that of a true slave. But you shouldn't need more than a few hours a week so focused. Yes, you do need to make him regularly submit to domination and pain in a formal setting. And you will be free to enjoy all the pleasures of a mistress/owner - his complete devotion to your sexual pleasure, if you are a sadist, his true and frequent pain and suffering, and the freedom to have sex with whomever you choose.īut how to get there without spending your every moment in the dungeon? I mean,*really*, who's the slave here? It's really quite simple. And, he will be a real slave if you train him properly. To see a man's tears as he suffers for you purely because you've driven him into total submission will make your soul and pussy vibrate. And trust me - there's much pleasure and discovery for you as well in this task. Your new possession may be naturally submissive (or not! even more fun!), but you need to take him much deeper and much further into total obedience to get your greatest reward. If you really want a *real* slave, you'll need to invest some time and effort in consummating your new property arrangement. Congratulations! Chances are, you really haven't given much thought to 'What now?' It's all been fun play for a few hours.